Sunday, September 28, 2014

How do you deal with conflicts?

When you have expectations, that's when disappointment comes...


1. Treat all conflicts seriously. Even when it is a small issue, treat it seriously. Pray about it.
2. Don't be quick to confront. 
3. Don't accuse.
4. Ask politely. 
5. Answer patiently.
6. Don't be quick to defend your position. 
7. Pray through the situation, ask God for peace and clarity. 
8. Seek advice from a neutral and mature leader. Because it is human's tendency to seek for those who are standing in the same opinion as ours.
9. Think about how much you are contributing to this conflict situation. How many percentage?


It is always easier to avoid conflicts. But it builds up bits by bits. And resentment comes in. I have to keep telling myself, I shouldn't expect much, I shouldn't hope much... Is that the right thing to do? 

Saturday, August 09, 2014

Aftermath of MH370 & MH17

People start having phobia flying. 

I was on a bumpy plane ride yesterday. The lady that sat beside me was jittery when the flight swayed up and down due to the bad weather. I've also heard of people avoiding to take flights after the incidents. 

With so much incidents happening recently, I can't help but feel skeptical when I hear people worrying about things that might/might not happen in future. I mean... Life is so fragile. Anything can happen anytime. Why worry about the future when you should cherish the time you should spend now with your love ones?



Sunday, April 27, 2014

Befrienders



In today's world, more and more people are prone to depression due to the heightening pressure from the condemn world. In the midst of it, there is a group of people that are out there, readily available to offer their ears to those who are in need. This group of people is called - Befrienders. They are mostly trained volunteers that are available 24 hours to listen to your problems while promising confidentiality. They offer empathetic listening, but not solutions to your problem. Same goes with counseling, you are the one who knows how is best to solve your issue. But they will be there to guide you to a positive path.

So, if you need emotional support, you can contact them via their hotline phone calls at 03-79568144 or 03-79568145. They are available 24 hours a day. Alternatively, you can reach them through email at sam@befrienders.org.my. You can also schedule an appointment to meet them face to face at Befrienders Center, No.95 Jalan Templer, 46000 Petaling Jaya.

Saturday, April 26, 2014






How much more should I bear? I have tried so hard, so hard and You know it. It comes to a point where I really hate what I am passionate in. Everything just doesn't go smoothly. So much of hiccups. Where do You want to deliver me?

Why do You keep asking me to be patient? You know how much impatient I can be. How quick I am in giving up. I am breaking the record of waiting already. How much more do You want to let the devil fool around with me?

But You said, it is a process that I have to go through. You said if I rush through things, I won't be able to learn through the process. You said this is a journey that I have to go through. If that is the case, I choose to obey Lord. But please be with me, never leave me alone. You know how much I need You. For You are the Lord, my redeemer, my rock. You are my Saviour. You are the reason I am here.

Sunday, April 20, 2014

Happy Easter

The Lord was crucified, and on the third day He rose again.
The Lord has risen and He will come again. 
Happy Easter everyone :)

I was standing under the exit barrier unknowingly today.

Suddenly the parking uncle shouted, "WATCH OUT!!!"

My first reflex was to quickly duck, squatting down just in time as the barrier was closing down.


The parking uncle: "Wah, yao gam fai geh (cantonese)" (Translation: Wah, such agile reflex)

Thinking to self: Life shorter by 10 years (-_-" )


There are things in life that we are just in time to respond. But there are things in life that we live with regrets. How many people can be saved? How many people can walk through the heaven's door? How much have I put effort in spreading the gospel? By knowing God, it transforms your lives. It brings peace, joy, hope and prompts you to be on a mission to spread the love to everyone. 

Jesus saved us from our sin when He, who are holy and blameless, was crucified on the cross. He brings salvation to us. He gives us hope.

Have you believed in Him already?